When Did Being Exhausted Become Normal?

By: Built For Balance

“I’m just tired.”

That’s something you hear students say every day. We say it while walking to 1st period and after practice, when we’re not just tired, but burned out.  This problem has slowly become part of the high school experience. In fact, 3 out of 4 high school students experience burnout. Austin is the seventh most burned-out city in the country. But the real question is: when did constantly feeling drained become normal?

To answer that question, we first have to identify the root of the problem. The issue is not just that burnout exists, but that many students do not even recognize it. Studies show that over 80% of students do not truly understand burnout. Many believe that feeling overwhelmed, overcommitted, and constantly being behind is simply what high school is supposed to feel like. 

Burnout doesn’t always look dramatic, which is part of why it goes unnoticed. It can show up as procrastination, loss of motivation, irritability, detachment, or feeling numb instead of stressed. However, some of these symptoms affect students more deeply than others. One of the most common forms of burnout is procrastination, because students often feel mentally stuck. Assignments pile up, and even starting can feel overwhelming. As a result, students delay their work, fall further behind, and feel even more stressed. Another major symptom is losing motivation. Hobbies, sports, and even time with friends can start to feel like obligations instead of something to look forward to, which removes balance. These symptoms lead to serious effects. Burnout affects academic performance and overall well-being. In particular, academics often decline, not due to a lack of ability, but because mental exhaustion makes it harder to focus, retain information, and

stay consistent. Chronic sleep deprivation also plays a role. When students do not get enough sleep, their concentration decreases, their anxiety increases, and even simple tasks begin to feel overwhelming. Over time, this creates a cycle where students are constantly trying to catch up but never fully recover.

“But isn’t that just stress?”

In reality, there is a clear difference between stress and burnout, yet many students confuse the two. Stress is temporary and can even be helpful. It might come before a big game or an important deadline, but once the event passes, the stress fades. Burnout is different. It is a prolonged state of mental, emotional, and physical exhaustion caused by continuous pressure without enough recovery. It does not disappear after a good night’s rest. It lingers. High school is meant to challenge students, but at what cost?

So how do we fix it? 

The first step is awareness. Students need to understand that constant stress isn’t a good thing. Being busy isn’t being productive, overcommitment isn’t success, and balance isn’t laziness; it’s sustainability. The second step is assessment. Students must evaluate their habits honestly: How many commitments do I have? How much sleep am I getting? What activities energize me versus drain me? The third step is action. Small changes can make a difference, like setting boundaries, protecting and scheduling rest, and communicating when overwhelmed. Balance isn’t failure. It is the result of systems & expectations that prioritize performance over well-being. Balance is the way out. It’s something you build intentionally.  So if you are feeling constantly drained,

 detached, or overwhelmed, take a moment to reflect. Ask yourself whether you are experiencing stress or burnout, because recognizing the difference is the first step.

Authors: Yash Mehtani, Rohan Sengupta, Shamel Islam

We are the team behind Built for Balance, a student-led community awareness initiative focused on addressing burnout among youth. Our program promotes awareness, habit assessment, and sustainable balance through research-based tools and community engagement.

We wrote this article to educate students about burnout and encourage healthy, intentional change within our schools and communities.

Follow us: @builtforbalance21

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